Ever watched a talk and thought: “This is flawless. And I feel… nothing.” That’s the curse of overpolish.
Style without soul.
Technique without tension.
Connection - lost in the cadence.
💡 ONE IDEA WELLThe three most-watched TED Talks of all time?
They’ve been watched over 200 million times between them. They’re polished. Structured. Well-lit. And when you watch one or two, they work. But binge a few in a row? You remember the moment someone breaks the mould. A story that’s raw. The more it works, the more it wears thin. Which is why real presence beats perfect performance - every time. 🧰 LESS MESS, MORE MESSAGEWe think polish = professionalism. But over-scripting flattens personality. Every pause is rehearsed. Every joke lands the same. And every speaker ends up sounding... interchangeable. Here’s the truth:
That doesn’t mean wing it. Let your quirks show. Polish is fine. 🧭 ASK YOURSELF THISWhen I present… Am I showing up as a person or a performance? |
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