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A few years back, I spoke about a case that involved the death of a child. My child. “Just a heads up - this next part includes a case that might be difficult for some of you to hear.” Heads nodded. One person quietly stepped out. It felt like the right thing to do. But lately, I’ve been wondering - does it actually help? 💡 ONE IDEA WELLDo warnings prepare… or do they prime? I've given content warnings before. But you can’t give a warning for everything. A recent meta-analysis in Clinical Psychological Science (Bridgland et al., 2024) reviewed 17 studies on trigger warnings and found: “Trigger warnings have small effects, if any, on affective responses, and may actually increase anxiety for some individuals.” In other words: warnings don’t consistently help, and in some cases, they may hurt. This invites a distinction:
The first is about protection. The second is about permission. For me, content warnings are about respect - offering people a moment to prepare, pause, or step out. Because not everything needs a warning. 🧰 LESS MESS, MORE MESSAGEIf you’re going to give a content warning, make it clear, brief, and timely. And remember: you’re not fragile - and neither is your audience. 🧭 ASK YOURSELF THISAm I naming this for them, or tiptoeing around the subject for me? Here’s the meta-analysis from Bridgland et al. (2024) that sparked this conversation. Worth a read — or at least a skim. |
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✈️ Airport Thoughts Right now, I’m at the airport waiting to board a flight to Adelaide. Tomorrow, I’ll be stepping onto the stage at Compassion Revolution to do something I’ve never done before. No slides.No clicker.Just me, the audience, and the words I’ve chosen. 🎤 A Talk, or a Performance? Most of the time, I tell people not to memorise every word. Instead: Know your beats.Know where the story turns.Know the feeling behind each section. But this talk… is different. This one’s more like a...
Ever sit through a talk that starts with a mystery — and ends without solving it? It’s like watching a movie that opens on a gun resting on a desk. You notice it. You wait for it. But the payoff never comes. 💡 ONE IDEA WELL Chekhov’s Gun is a simple rule of storytelling: If you show the audience a gun in Act I, you’d better fire it by Act III. In your talk, the “gun” might be a provocative question, a compelling stat, or a case that promises a twist. And if you don’t circle back? You leave...
A few weeks ago, I was invited to run a workshop on public speaking. Along with the invitation came a slide template - the official university-branded deck. You know the kind: big logos, gradient backgrounds, clip-art flair. This was the opening slide they asked me to use: I get it. It's well-intentioned. There’s an event logo. There's my name. There's even a helpful purple mist. But I didn’t use it. Here’s what I used instead: Why? Because your first slide isn’t just a title card. It’s a...