|
I used to think I had to hide my nerves. I’d grip the lectern, speak a little too fast, smile a little too hard. The audience was kind. They nodded. They listened. But they felt my tension. Not because I said anything wrong - but because I carried it in my voice, my posture, my pacing. 💡 ONE IDEA WELLWe often talk about what to say on stage. But let’s talk about how you show up - because your audience is watching more than your slides. They’re watching you. And without realising it, they’re matching your energy. We’re wired for connection. Your audience doesn’t just listen with their ears. Their nervous systems are tuning into yours. This is thanks to mirror neurons—specialised brain cells that fire both when we do something and when we see someone else doing it. That means:
But when you’re grounded, present, and purposeful? Your audience gets to feel that, too. 🧰 LESS MESS, MORE MESSAGEWant your audience to feel calm, curious, and capable? Then model it. Because here’s the truth: Your audience takes their emotional cues from you. This isn’t just performance theory - it’s neuroscience. When you rush, they scramble. When you ground yourself, they relax. When you’re present, they feel it. Mirror neurons don’t just reflect what we do. They echo how we are. So what does that mean for you?
You're setting the tone. Because your energy leads the room - and when you hold your excitement lightly, calm becomes contagious. 🧭 ASK YOURSELF THISWhat signal am I sending—before I’ve even said a word? Hit reply and tell me. |
One idea a week to help you teach and present with more clarity, confidence, and calm. No fluff. No scripts. Just practical tools that land.
Ever seen a talk where the slides felt… off? The speaker’s talking about empathy—but there’s a stock photo of two people hugging.They’re explaining diagnostic reasoning—meanwhile, a glowing blue brain rotates on screen. It’s not just awkward. It’s distracting.That’s not dual coding.That’s dual confusion. In my workshop at the APEC conference, I mentioned how less is often more when it comes to slide text.That sparked a question about dual coding—and how it fits into that advice. So here’s...
I’ve been thinking a lot about what it means to show up well.Not perfectly. Not flawlessly. But fully present.Giving a talk at the Compassion Revolution was one of the biggest moments of my year—nine scenes, dozens of rehearsals, lines I’d memorised like poetry.And still…It didn’t go exactly to plan. Not in a cynical way. In a generous one.Because the best presentations aren’t about us. They’re about the people listening. 💡 ONE IDEA WELL They never knew. On the night before my Compassion...
✈️ Airport Thoughts Right now, I’m at the airport waiting to board a flight to Adelaide. Tomorrow, I’ll be stepping onto the stage at Compassion Revolution to do something I’ve never done before. No slides.No clicker.Just me, the audience, and the words I’ve chosen. 🎤 A Talk, or a Performance? Most of the time, I tell people not to memorise every word. Instead: Know your beats.Know where the story turns.Know the feeling behind each section. But this talk… is different. This one’s more like a...