You’re moving on too soon


You’ve seen it happen.

Just as your brain is catching up -

just as you’re about to get it -

click

The slide vanishes.

Replaced by the next one.

And the moment is gone.


💡 ONE IDEA WELL

Here’s the trap:

We click when we’re done speaking.

But the audience isn’t done thinking.

We’ve rehearsed the message. They’re hearing it for the first time.

And just when they’re starting to process it… we move on.

But meaning takes a moment.

Holding the slide a few beats longer -

even after you’ve stopped speaking -

gives people space to absorb it.
​
​


🧰 LESS MESS, MORE MESSAGE

Don’t rush your ideas off stage.

You’ve lived with your talk for days - weeks, even.

But for the audience, this moment is brand new.

They need time to catch up.

So try this:

Pause on your final slide beat.

Let it land.

Count—one… two… three - before you click.

Let the words echo.

Let the image do its job.

Let silence do its job.

Silence isn’t awkward.

It’s generous.

It says: “This matters. Take your time.”

The best slide might not be your next one.

It might be the one you already showed -

just held long enough to be remembered.


🧭 ASK YOURSELF THIS

Are you clicking forward because you’re finished -
or because your audience is?

​
​
Speak soon,

Andy
​
PS:
​
If you know someone who clicks too soon… maybe forward this instead?

GIVE TALKS PEOPLE ACTUALLY REMEMBER.

One idea a week to help you teach and present with more clarity, confidence, and calm. No fluff. No scripts. Just practical tools that land.

Read more from GIVE TALKS PEOPLE ACTUALLY REMEMBER.

Last week I confessed to paying my electricity bill during a lecture.That was me on the far side of the screen, drifting, with no one noticing.This one is a confession from the other direction. I once paused a job interview to look at someone's bed.It was a recorded interview, one of a series I was reviewing for intern positions. Medical students, each talking to a camera from wherever they lived. Most of them had made their beds.One hadn't. The duvet was shoved into a corner. A bag sat on...

I paid my electricity bill during a pre-recorded lecture on assessment. Not after it. During it. The lecture played in one tab and my bank in another. Somewhere between the reference number and the confirm button, the speaker made what was probably an important point. I couldn't tell you what it was. I wasn't listening. This wasn't a one-off. I've watched every lecture of my Master's with something else open. Emails. Bills. Whatever was shouting loudest that day. The lecture never brings me...

I was on my laptop at home after a day at the hospital with my daughter, looking at three lines I still hadn't sent. Talk withdrawn. Slides already submitted. Apologies for the short notice. Three lines to unwind months of preparation and tell a room full of people, a week out, that I would not be walking onto their stage. I didn't press it straight away. I was thinking. Who would I miss? What would I miss? What does it cost the guy who is trying to build a small career on being the one who...